Father’s Day 2014

Hm, I guess it’s been a while.  All my life I thought it would be a good thing to keep some kind of journal.  A written evidence of me,so to speak.  The problem is…it takes a lot of work. Oh, yeah.  So it’s been almost five years since my last (and first) entry.  Why now?  Not sure.  I guess I’m a little older and a little less healthy.  Something to do with my mortality maybe?  Yesterday was Father’s Day…and it was nice. I’ve never been very big (or good) on the Mother’s Day /Father’s Day thing, but yesterday seemed different.  I spent some quality time with my daughter and her girls.  Beautiful day, nice meal and lots of positive thoughts.  They gave me a “memory box,” filled with little cards.  On each card was written a simple memory from our history.  It was wonderful.  I felt myself swelling up often as I read through them.  Her charge to me was to keep it going. When I think of something from our past, I’m to write it down on one of the little cards.  I like that idea.  The question is will I have the discipline to follow through.  We’ll see.  And I figured, while I was at it, may be I could get this blog thing going again.  Later that evening my other daughter spent some time with me too.  She had also contributed to the “memory box”  We had a nice talk.  So I’ll remember yesterday for some nice moments with my girls and my grandgirls.  Oh…yes…and my first memory card in the box.  A long ago summer night (probably 1990), when I brought a TV and VCR onto our pool deck and we watched “Always” as a family.  …a maybe over-sentimental remake starring Richard Dreyfus, Holly Hunter and John Goodman.  Atmosphere, popcorn, fun and lots of love.  A perfect night and a great memory.

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Author: billbenbarker

I recently retired after a 34 year career in public education. I was a teacher, supervisor, and administrator. Essentially, I enjoyed it all. The nonsense surrounding NCLB basically drove me to the edge...a good intention gone terribly wrong. In addition, I'm a founder (along with my late wife, Carolyn) of the Country Gate Playhouse community theatre in Belvidere, New Jersey. In recent years I've dabbled in writing interactive dinner theatre plays. I have also written a play called "Jersey Diner" as well as a youth oriented musical adaptation of "Tom Sawyer". Since "retiring" I'm an adjunct at our local community college. I also serve as a New Jersey school district education consultant.

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